hate is met with hate. Love is met with Love.

hate is met with hate. Love is met with Love.

Why then? When the dominion is yours for the discovery, why not choose the highest way of being?  The seed of love is planted within vulnerability. Love is not possible without first being vulnerable.  What if you spent your energy BEING loving versus BEING hateful? What would your family look like? What could your marriage or relationships look like? What about the WORLD?  Imagine what the world could be like if everyone chose to be loving. Be loving or be hateful, the choice is yours.

Hate is like throwing sand on a flame; suffocating any chance of the flame continuing to burn.  Hate stops the potential of any higher vibration. Hate is easy as it is one of the lowest levels of vibration.  Hate is empty, unfulfilling and will never hold the answer people are so desperately searching for.

Yow-sah – even writing the words about hate started to bring me down – so let’s talk about the opposite of hate, which in this blog, is Love.  Love is one of the highest vibrations and gives people the access to making a difference they so desperately seek. If you have read my other blogs you will know how important contribution is to me; I think it is why we are here – to help each other get where we are going.

Opposite to hate, contribution is ONLY available within high vibration.  Contribution, by definition is, the part played by a person or thing in bringing about a result or helping something to advance.  There are so many ways of being a contribution throughout the day! Random acts of kindness, giving of time/talents/treasures, and even a smile can be a contribution to a person’s humdrum day.  Being in contribution means that you have to get past, “thinking of yourself,” and be able to give freely, willingly, and lovingly. 

We as people like to get caught up in how “busy” we are.  Is that “business” of life serving you and your highest good?  We all have a lot of “stuff” that keeps us busy and we get to choose what we take on and what we don’t.  Does this sound familiar:

“Im working 50+ hours and the kids need to be carpooled all over the place, my car needs a new battery, the laundry is piling up, I still haven’t cleaned up an issue with my spouse from two weeks ago, my house payment  is due, I’ve gained 20lbs and now you are asking me to be contribution?”

Yes, I am still requesting you to be in action and be a contribution.  Don’t allow the to-do list to consume you – allow it to be what it is; a to-do list.  It is the mindset DURING these to-dos that will make the difference. The more you wrap things in an attitude of gratitude the more space you have to be in additional actions.  

Do you think I just one day decided to be a life coach?  Well, maybe AND I have survived and mastered a lot of life’s adversities (if you want to hear the list please ask). This is MY time to give back – I use my past as a platform to connect with people and YES I do all this work while owning multiple businesses, volunteering, cray-cray entertainment schedule, 3 fur babies, an amazing husband, and caring for my 76 year young mother whom resides with us.  I just choose it. I take it on as my honor to do so. Do I drop the ball? Absolutely! If I don’t drop the ball I am not playing a big enough game.

Thanks for reading and what makes this a TRANSFORMATIONAL message is the ACTION it motivates you to take.  You get to choose what comes out of your mouth. You get to choose to be LOVING. You get to choose to be a contribution.  Make it a point to be a contribution today – feel the fear and do it anyway. If you are fed and fulfilled by the contribution – KEEP DOING IT!

Possibility makes life a game worth playing!

Coach Tony
Top 5 Gallup Strengths: Adaptability * Competition * Maximizer * Individualization * Activator